A scammer on OK Cupid

Wes Boudville
4 min readDec 25, 2022

I am on OK Cupid and want to warn you of a scammer on that site. She calls herself Pam and says she is 35 and from Taiwan. It started with the email in Figure 0. She had an account on OK Cupid at the time, and she asked for my phone number so we could text each other.

Figure 0

She and I had 90% agreement on our interests, as found by OK Cupid. See Figures 1–4. Figure 1 shows the top of her profile page. She says she is from Taiwan, but appears caucasian. That in itself is not wrong. If you look at Figure 4, it shows my photo. I’m asian but have a French surname. Ok, my surname is not publicly shown on OK Cupid, but I’m telling it here.

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She communicated with me and told her phone number in Figure 5. I checked on OK Cupid…



Wes Boudville

Inventor. 23 granted US patents on AR/VR/Metaverse . Founded linket.info for mobile brands for users. Linket competes against Twitch and YouTube. PhD physics.